“Why Do They Fight Their War on Women's Bodies?”

Veronique Mistiaen is a London-based journalist writing about social issues, development and human rights for the Guardian, Times and other publications in the UK and US. She is also writing a blog around these issues (veronews1.blogspot.com).
Guest commentary by Veronique Mistiaen
When a gorilla is killed in the mountains of the Democratic Republic of Congo, there is an outcry, and people mobilize great resources to protect the animals. Yet more than 500,000 women have been raped in the same region, and there is silence.
“We ask: ‘Why the silence of the developed countries?’”
This is a question DRC journalist Chouchou Namegabe asked at a hearing on sexual violence in the DRC before the US Senate’s Committee on Foreign Relations in May.
“The women ask WHY? Why such atrocities? Why do they fight their war on women’s bodies? It is because there is a plan to put fear into the community through the woman, because she is the heart of the community. When she is pushed down, the whole community follows. The rapes are targeted and intentional, and are meant to remove the people from their mineral-rich land through fear, shame, violence, and the intentional spread of HIV throughout entire families and villages.
After all of this you will make memorials and say ‘Never Again.’ But we don’t need commemorations; we want you to act now,” said Namegabe, her voice full of anguish.
Namegabe is founder of the South Kivu Women’s Media Association, known as Association des Femmes des Medias du Sud Kivu (AFEM-SK). The organization gives a voice to thousands of voiceless women. They use radio to give women the space to express what has happened to them, begin their healing, and seek justice.
“We have interviewed over 400 women in South Kivu, and their stories are terrifying,” she continued. “In fact, the word rape fails to truly describe what is happening because it is not only rape that occurs, but atrocities also accompany the rapes. That is what makes the situation in the eastern Congo so different, and horrible. Of all the testimonies we recorded there are two that stay in my mind that I will share with you.
I met a woman who had five children. They took her into the forest with her five children, and kept them there for several days. As each day passed the rebels killed one of her children and forced her to eat her child’s flesh. She begged to be killed but they refused and said, “No, we can’t give you a good death,” she testified in front of visibly moved US senators.
“Last month, after the joint operation between the Congolese army and the Rwandese army to break down the FDLR1, in their running away the FDLR raped more women. Our journalists were told that after they raped the women, they put fuel in their vaginas and set them on fire, and then extinguished the fire. This was done not to kill them, but to let them suffer. There were many other horrible atrocities.”
Why our silence and inaction? What are we waiting for? Namegabe is right to imply that the international community would never let so many gorillas suffer in this way.
For more information: Association des Femmes des Médias du Sud Kivu – www.afemsk.org – info@afemsk.org
Direct email: chouchou@afemsk.org (office)



it is the worst story i have ever heard.the worst experience anyone can go through.just wished it was a bad dream but it is so unfortunate that someone underwent that.MAY GOD FORGIVE US PEOPLE .because its obvious we have lost it.
How can anyone sleep knowing these things are happening?
What can we do? Who will be the brave American official to
be proactive on these horrors? God help us all.
human beings are the most crawel creatures , to get some thing they donot mind the way to achieve it ,wether it is humaine or not.
women alowed them to do so & this is the greate mistake , women should never sucrifice or bend to help man achieve his not always legal goals
the more she bends ,the more he consider her expandible
If all Women around the World can help, with time or Finances, to raise awareness about the suffering of Congo’s Women, it would make a difference. Women for Women International (www.womenforwomen.org/) is trying to transform the lives of many Mothers of conflict driven regions of Africa, so can you make a difference too!
The title – Why do they fight their war on womens’ bodies really resonates with me.
My personal focus – which is to oppose childhood sexual abuse and domestic violence – has caused me many times to ponder why there is such widespread practice of these two things?
Can it be that the perpetrators of crimes against women’s bodies are fully aware that the world’s political and legal systems will simply fail to step in and mete out justice?
For in my opinion this is where some of the problems are rooted.
In patriarchal societies (the standard around the world) who is there to really fight tooth and nail for the rights of women? Certainly not a man!
And make no mistake – I am not anti men.
Happily married, I believe that many of the solutions for some of the more widespread cruelties women face – lie squarely in the hands of women. But more of us will need to join hands before we can change the ways of world . . .
As for me, I’m just going to keep on doing my bit to let peace come in. Strength to all who feel this way too! Sue
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