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IWD 2010: It Will Take More Than Ovaries

8 March 2010 2 Comments


Commentary by Alicia Simoni
Community Manager and Staff Writer

When Cora Weiss, President of the Hague Appeal for Peace, declared at a recent CSW meeting that building peace “takes more than ovaries” I was tempted to rise to my feet, maybe even stand on my seat, and applaud loudly. Well-behaved women, after all, seldom make history.

In the end, I refrained from a raucous outburst. But today – International Women’s Day – seems like a perfect opportunity to discuss why it is that I think we’ll need more than just ovaries on our side if we are going to achieve either equality or sustainable peace.

International Women’s Day is a day to celebrate what women around the world have achieved, often against great odds. It is a day to remind the world of the struggles that women continue to face. And in many parts of the world, it is a day to honor the women who grace our families and communities. In the United States florists are inundated with requests for roses on Valentine’s Day; in many other parts of the world roses are saved for Women’s Day. They are offered as a sign of love, appreciation, and honor to mothers, daughters, wives, and friends on March 8th.

All women are worthy of this respect and appreciation. We all deserve roses – and much, much more.

However, it is not strictly our womanhood that makes us a critical resource in the quest to create a more just and fair world. That’s why I agree that it takes more than just ovaries to be positive agents for change.

Women support and uplift other women; at times they also put their sisters in struggle down. Mothers give and nurture the life in all of us; sometimes it is also mothers who stand between their daughters and self-confidence or assertiveness. As women we are blessed with ovaries at birth, and with the potential for greatness, compassion, and care. This potential is ours to realize – and to help bring forth in others. Let’s strive to bring out the best in ourselves and lift up the best in other women.

Let’s also encourage men to realize their potential. By asserting that women are necessarily more kind, compassionate and caring than men we are letting half the population off the hook. Men may have to strive harder to realize it – they are socialized with rigid expectations to be tough, stoic, and aggressive – yet they possess a similar potential for greatness, compassion, and care. I don’t want men as allies in the fight for my equality; I want men as partners in a struggle that they embrace as their own. Men need to relinquish some of their power, but they stand to gain as much from equality as women do.

On International Women’s Day I would like to honor the woman in all of us and encourage the best that has yet to emerge in each of us, women and men alike. I believe equality is a partnership that honors both women and men at our best – and offers us our most probable opportunity to achieve a more peaceful, just future.

UPDATE:  Cora Weiss posted on Peace X Peace. Read what she had to say here:

http://www.peacexpeace.org/2010/03/justice-development-equality-and-peace-why-not/

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2 Comments to “IWD 2010: It Will Take More Than Ovaries”
  1. donna says:

    I agree with your post. One thing that strikes me as odd as how women in politics here in the states are attacking each other and allowing men to attack their gender as well. I know there will be difference of opinion but cant women be the example of what men SHOULDNT be doing. Example- Sarah Palin. People like and dislike her views however they attack her family and her personally. Women should be applauding that she has gotten involved and not taken a back seat roll. Instead Liberal women sit back and let men attack their fellow women. I find this sad.

    We woman can and must be the difference if there is going to be real change. It starts with being civil to each other no matter what the view and not allowing anyone including the “old mens clubs” to bash her or any woman that doesnt side with them. They make it about her/their gender and looks and not about the REAL issues.

    I wonder where the woman’s rights organizations are and why they are not shouting this instead of staying so silent. Perhaps because she is conservative? hummm..

  2. alicia says:

    You bring up a good point. I think Sarah Palin and people’s reaction to her reveals some of the divisions within the women’s movement. A lot of women/women’s organizations find her politics an affront to women’s rights and as a result, I agree with you, that they remain silent to (and sometimes take part in) very sexist bashing. It is one thing to disagree, it is another thing to do it respectfully.

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